When it comes to love, think about whether this is actually what you want. Sometimes we can feel like a relationship would be a great way of solving our problems and really help us to be happier, without realizing that we’re not completely sure that long-term commitment is what we want.
It might sound strange, but deciding you want love is in some ways, ended up a conscious decision. It means acknowledging that what you really want is something serious and real, be willing to accept all the challenges that might come with that. Relationships are great they can be wonderful sources of happiness and stability. But they can also be hard work they require perseverance and a willingness to adapt.
It’s worth thinking about whether you’re prepared to face both sides of things before going out and looking for someone in some way; you can be honest about your expectations and hopes from the beginning. You may not be totally sure, well there’s nothing wrong with that. But at least attempting to be conscious of what you might want is better than going ahead with no consideration at all.